Discuss the affair is endless. This is because so many couples who experience it, whether that feel compelled to do so or indeed do so with a purpose. There was a man who was so “neat” to hide the affair, until his new wife to know many years later, even when the affair had produced a child. There was a man who basically was not able to live with a woman just so he will continue while there is a chance affair.
Below are 9 reasons why a man or a woman having an affair. Whatever the reason, certainly can not serve as justification for what we do. From these reasons, you may just be vigilant, and introspection, as they may be having an affair happened because our mistakes, too.
1. Bored
This is the most common reason for going. You or your pair may indeed love each other. But when the relationship becomes routine, and no longer something you want to know from him, you begin to miss the little sparks that you feel when you start seeing someone. And when you meet someone who is able to give those feelings to you, there is infidelity.
2. Dependence
At first, the affair seemed to show freedom. It can be translated as doing what you or your pair will. However, actually having an affair shows dependence. A cheater feels dependent because they are not brave enough to break up with his partner to choose with this new person.
3. Undecided
Sometimes life or a certain situation can make you confused. That’s when you can make mistakes.
4. Because you let
You probably know he or she was having an affair, but act like you do not know because they do not want to fight with the pair. Then, you always forgive when he admitted having an affair. If this happens repeatedly, the fact he would lose respect for you, and will continue that habit. He knows you will always receive it.
5. Search for tranquility
If He treats you badly, in fact you might want to distance them from him. However sometimes it is not easy to do, especially if you already have a child. If you feel stuck in a bad relationship, it’s reasonable if you want to run into someone who can treat you better.
6. Revenge
This reason is simple, but stupid. Because he was having an affair, you were cheating, so he knew what it was like when their partner having an affair with another man. That way you also do to get it back.
7. Need recognition
When you’ve lived so long relationship, the couple may have thought you are not special. At that time you want to know if you still interesting enough to attract the attention of others. You also feel more attractive when I was single, and if you have an affair, it means there are still those who are interested in you.
8. Sensational
Some people just enjoy the sensation: call in secret, pledged to meet somewhere, and felt excited for fear of getting caught, and was relieved to return to your home was not the slightest suspicion. This made him want to do it again.
9. Not regard it as an affair
Many who meet someone new because he thinks is right to meet other people, no matter the person has a partner or not. Initially was only hoping to make friends with the more familiar, but continues into another phase.
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