What makes a man forget his promise to love his wife and to share his heart? To answer these questions, M Gary Neuman surveyed 200 cheating husbands and faithful husbands. The results of the survey he poured into the book The Truth About Cheating.
48 percent because of disappointment
Men and sex are two things hard to separate, no wonder if many who think sex is the main reason for male infidelity. In fact only 8 percent of men answered the sexual dissatisfaction as their reason for being unfaithful.
The majority of those surveyed admitted by Neuman that they felt emotionally upset at the couple. Buried anger often blames each other or each other will cause a sense of stress and disappointment. Unfortunately, he is less adept at expressing his feelings that his wife often did not realize that he was needed attention. Concentrate on work or relationships with others are often chosen by men to divert the feeling disappointment.
66 percent feel guilty
All men are not loyal is a smooth operator? In fact, 68 percent of respondents admitted they had never had the intention to be unfaithful. And the majority of respondents wished they had never started.
But, men are clever creatures that manage their feelings. “They can hold and manage emotions,” said Neuman. So, if your spouse will be faithful to swear, do not trust 100 percent, Neuman said.
77 percent have a friend who is also having an affair
Make friends with someone who is cheating will make the affair appear as a natural thing.
40 percent having an affair with a colleague
About 40 percent of respondents admitted that they fell in love with a female colleague in the office or clients. “He easily drawn to caring a woman and can be used as a vent,” said Neuman, especially if his relationship and communication with his wife’s tenuous.
Only 12 percent of an affair with a beautiful woman
In other words, the attitude unfaithful man is not primarily because of physical appearance. “In many cases, the reason for cheating men is to meet the emotional needs,” said Neuman. If they had felt “click” and comfortable with a woman sex will easily to follow.
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